NK Podcast: Leading H.E.R. Way
What if I told you that building a successful business doesn’t have to mean running yourself into the ground?
Welcome to Leading HER Way, the podcast that challenges the outdated belief that success has to come with burnout.
I’m Nikisha, your disruptive coach, and after 15 years of growing multiple businesses, I’ve learned that working harder isn’t the answer—building smarter is.
Every week, I sit down with powerhouse women entrepreneurs and wedding pros who’ve cracked the code to scaling their businesses while reclaiming their time.
You’ll hear raw, unfiltered conversations, client transformations, and behind-the-scenes success stories proving that your business can thrive without you constantly putting out fires.
Here’s what you’ll take away:
✔️ How to build 7-figure systems that scale—so you’re not stuck in the weeds of your business.
✔️ How to stop being the bottleneck and design a business that runs smoothly without you.
✔️ Social proof from industry leaders who have mastered this shift—and are here to show you how.
So, if you’re ready to work less while earning more, hit play, and let’s create a business that ignites your freedom. 🔥
NK Podcast: Leading H.E.R. Way
Ep 65: Ellyn Katherine Shamalov: The Healing Path: Quantum Enlightenment for Business Success
What really happens when a spiritual awakening meets business life?
Today, I sit down with Ellyn Katherine Shamalov, a powerful quantum healer who shares her journey from living in pain and hiding her gifts… to finding deep healing and helping other entrepreneurs do the same.
Ellyn opens up about how her struggles with anger, depression, and IBS led her down a spiritual path that changed everything. Once afraid of being judged, she finally stepped into her truth—and that’s when her business started to bloom.
She didn’t just heal her body—she found the courage to help others heal too.
She introduces us to her Quantum Enlightenment System—a method she received as a divine download in the shower (yes, really!)—that blends ancient wisdom with real-life tools for business owners who want to align with who they really are.
Your Takeaways:
1. Healing yourself helps your business grow. Ellyn shows how facing your emotions and embracing your truth can unlock the clients and impact you’re meant for.
2. Every emotional trigger is a lesson. Your biggest challenges are actually clues to your next level—if you’re willing to look deeper.
3. You don’t have to force success. When you're in alignment with your true self, the right clients, ideas, and results flow with ease.
Ellyn's Gift: Schedule a free high-vibe life blueprint call (value of $300) t at https://calendly.com/mc-healing/blueprint
Tune in and discover how your energy and truth are your greatest business tools.
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Welcome to Leading Her Way with your host and business guru, Nakesha King. This podcast is the ultimate destination for women, creative entrepreneurs, who want to break free from burnout. If you are overwhelmed by client demands and feel like you're doing this all alone, you, my friend, are in the right place alone. You, my friend, are in the right place Now. Let's dive in for steps to take back your time and simplify your workflow. All right, Nikisha, take it away.
Speaker 2:All right. Hello, gorgeous, hello everyone. Thank you so much for joining us today on Business Essentials Academy, and one of our guests that we have is Ellen Katrin, and she is here because she is an amazing spiritual truth leader in your business and she has the way of doing some amazing things, and I would love for you to get to know a little bit more about her, as I will be as well, and she sometimes guides us through vibrations and energy and the things we put out in the world and how it affects us on our personal and business journey. So, catherine, if you don't mind sharing a little bit of what you do, and how did you start doing what you do?
Speaker 3:Well, first I want to say thank you for having me on the show and it's really exciting to share because when I think about the progress that I've made where I started to where I am now, it is truly an amazing journey. It was hard when you're in it, but when you look at it you're like, oh my God, everything had to happen. So I am a quantum healer and enlightenment mentor, and that started with my own healing. You know, for a very long time I was a very angry person when I was younger. You know my mom took me to therapists to see why I was so angry. Nobody knew it was. I was so bad that I was in denial of the anger because I've already wore this mask that I feel I just was attached that people would see Happy Bubbly Ellen, and you know I would just be a certain way. But for whatever reason around my home and other people, I was just angry. And and other people I was just angry. And you know I met my husband, who was my catalyst, I feel, in my life, and you know I had a lot of spiritual gifts that were activated when I was very young, but I was so scared of them that I ended up locking them in a closet. And so, when I met my husband, he and I were watching some spiritual shows and learning more about spirituality, and it activated something within me. It was like something just woke up and my intuition started to open up. And then I had, like these voices in my head, which was my intuition, but I didn't understand it, because it's like one good and one bad, or as we like to perceive it as good or bad. There were two opposites. And so it's funny because, you know, I'm in the shower and I'm receiving all these downloads and thinking where the hell is this coming from? So I just started Googling everything and I saw on spiritual websites, people were talking about the things that I was channeling, and back then I didn't know I was channeling, so I um, I went with it. You know, we were watching these shows and we made a promise that while we were dating, that we were always going to better ourselves.
Speaker 3:And so in our marriage, when we got married a year later, um, oh, my God, um, oh my God. Shit hit the fan fast. I was so angry and we were fighting all the time and he was triggering the hell out of me. I was triggering the hell out of him and we were just like we need to do something before we get a divorce. So we ended up going to these emotional healing retreats. I did some inner child work and yada yada, and you know from those things it wasn't like such a profound change.
Speaker 3:So we continue to go to these different retreats to see if there's other ways that we can heal, and there was one in Florida that was just blew my mind. It turned out to be something that I've used now in my business, and so it was this reverend who channeled the seven life lessons and he does spiritual counseling as well as other healing modalities like raking some other things to detox the body and move the energy around. So we were there for 10 days and it was amazing because I felt so clear and I understood about the seven life lessons and it just so happened to be that he was doing a course on the seven life lessons after the retreat, which is what we ended up staying for. So it was very divinely guided and when I was talking to my husband about how we were feeling, I thought, wow, I feel so light, I feel so free. I feel like my mind wasn't chit-chattering, you know it was, everything was so peaceful and I said we have to bring this back to New York.
Speaker 3:So when I came home, and of course the business name that I heard was Higher Vibrations.
Speaker 3:So when I came home, I right away opened up a business of Higher Vibrations and you know I was following.
Speaker 3:I right away opened up a business of high vibrations and you know I was following whatever I was going with. But I'm going to say, and first, and I took the life lessons and I said, ok, I need to understand how this applies to my life. So I started to look at all of the emotions and the things that happen in my life and I connected the dots with the life lessons based on what I learned, because each life lessons has three to six different emotions attached to them. However, the way he taught us there was that every experience taught us a certain life lesson, and so I used that first and I said, okay, so this experience taught me this lesson, that lesson and whatever. Then I applied it to IBS because I wanted to see how I can heal my IBS that I had through understanding the life lessons. So I connected the dots of which life lessons and it was like a no brainer. She was like duh when I saw it.
Speaker 2:How can you?
Speaker 3:not see this now. It was like a no-brainer. She was like duh when I saw it. How can you not see this now? So it was very apparent of what was causing IBS in the stomach, in our creation center, right In the what is it called? Soloplexes and within that center of fire we have. That's where the IBS is and that's where separation comes from. That's one of the life lessons and so that made total sense with the abandonment issues I went through and everything.
Speaker 3:So the other part was with the, but I was afraid to be myself, I was afraid to be woo-woo, I was afraid for it to be so spiritual that and what people now call woo-woo that people were not going to be able to look at this, because I knew that my mission was to help awaken humanity and a lot of people who are dealing with suffering and sicknesses and illnesses are those people who need to wake up and stop just looking at the physical signs, but also the underlying, the root cause, which is the emotional, the energy that is causing these physical ailments.
Speaker 3:So that's been this world and it really is, because the team, the angelic team that I work with is not from this world and it took me a very long time to accept that, because I thought that that was crazy and I thought that who am I to be working with a team like this? And then, when I realized what the spiritual truth was, that I am inviting a physical vessel and I came here for a mission and I have, I see the power that I'm working with. So I had to really just accept that I am incarnated here for this particular reason. It's in my soul, blueprint and everything and information that I channeled. The modality that they helped me put together is really powerful.
Speaker 2:Super powerful. Now let me go back to when you were on the retreat and you learned the seven processes. I think I may have it wrong or right, I don't remember. Seven life lessons. Yeah, seven life lessons. There we go, thank you. What are the seven life lessons?
Speaker 3:Separation, judgment, control, forgiveness, identity, divine guidance and unconditional love and so right so I want to just point out that, as I'm talking to you, this is the information that's coming through. The life lessons that I was working with when it comes to me being where I am to for my business is number one divine guidance. Accepting the fact that that is divine guidance, that team that I'm working with, accepting that I have that team. Accepting that, um, we're not alone in this process and that there is a bigger mission. It's just connected. So then you know they're here to assist you when you ask for help right, exactly.
Speaker 2:And then what you also work with is seven light blessings, with separation, because that was part of your IBS.
Speaker 3:And I healed the IBS because I understood that I'm not separate from God. God is not a man in the sky. I'm sorry if people believe that and that's fine if they do, but the belief that there is a man in the sky or not, there's still a higher power. So we're going to look at that concept of there being a higher power, there being a bigger mission, a grander scheme of things, right Of why we're here and what we're meant to do and experience and be. And so when we look at that, at separation in the stomach area is where we would feel the more the most discord and disconnection, because it's the womb, it's the creation center. And so, coming to the idea of I'm not separate from God, God is like sparks, right, and every spark went into a body. So you can say you are a God in a physical body. So, having the idea of knowing that you have that power that God has, you are not separate because you are one with it. So you are. So you are in a sense, you know, not abandoned.
Speaker 2:Right and I have agreements with you in regards to that, because I know for me God is energy, and that's not only for all around me and outside. God has created me and I'm a part of God, like I'm very close to those beings and I no longer believe there's a man in this path. I don't believe it's a man, so for me, that's just something I've come across. What I liked is about what you said about you being and this is something I created new because our former neighbor, our podcast, was leading her way, but we updated it over the summer for Bee Academy Business Essentials. But I also am a very how can I express this? I am all about being you. You are special.
Speaker 2:You were made for a purpose and a reason, so, in alignment of that, I completely understand it and I love the fact that when people discover themselves, they can just be them and no one else. And sometimes, like you said, it took courage because you felt like you were on a journey of what people call right, an manifestation. But you also have to know when you're here to serve a purpose. You're not here at times to serve a purpose for everyone, but the people you call to serve Right In our Bible we understand people were called to serve a certain group of people, not the world. They didn't have to worry about everyone, they just had to serve who they were placed to serve. So whenever I hear woo-woo, I always think it's woo-woo for someone who don't believe. But it's okay, because that's not who you're here to serve.
Speaker 3:White, black, black. Well, I do want to say something that came up when you were speaking about that and it's actually funny because this never came to me before. So you know, my husband and I we didn't have good boundaries, and it comes to the boundaries even in your, like shit. I'm going to have to, and it was heavy. I'm going to have to help the world. Now I have to wake everybody up and you interject into people who are not ready for the message. And that's where I started, because that's what I thought I had to do.
Speaker 3:And as I progressed in my own healing and my journey with my business, I realized there's a target audience for a reason, and it's who you feel aligned to serve, because that's who you're meant to serve. And even with my clients, who I am serving, I have a boundary and I don't just interject and give them information when I want to. I need to first feel if they're ready to hear that, and I need to. Most of the time. I ask them if they're willing to hear it, Because sometimes people don't want to hear it and even if they're working with you and they're open to receiving the service, sometimes they're still closed off. So you have to have that boundary.
Speaker 3:And that's what I learned was we didn't have those boundaries in the beginning and so I was just, like you know, going there and it caused a lot of stress because, again, it was very heavy, felt like I had this big mission and that I was supposed to do this, and it was harder for me to get my business going because all I was doing was putting more pressure on myself and not bringing the right energy into what I was doing and how I was doing it. Number one not bringing the right energy because of the pressure and it's like, oh my God, I have to help everybody. That type of energy is very static and it does not call in the right people or call in people to you. It pushes people away.
Speaker 3:And number two, I wasn't talking to the right people, so I'm also giving the message to the wrong people who don't hear me, and then it also caused that, and then that that in turn causes you to feel lack because you're like shit, what? I'm not making any money and now I'm suffering in my business. So there has to be that boundary of understanding who you're serving and why you're serving them and if it's in alignment with what you are doing. Also, the other stagnant part, static part was that I wasn't in alignment with what I was doing. I wasn't, I was hiding myself, I was trying to do it in a healthcare aspect and that did not align with me, but I continued to do it because I thought that's what would reach people.
Speaker 2:Right, you weren't really being you because you figured I have to kind of tweet this so the message could be heard, because you're trying to everyone.
Speaker 3:And it did the opposite.
Speaker 2:Exactly? Do you remember what year in your business did you have the revelation of not speaking to the right market? And when you had that revelation, what did you do differently? How did you accept it and start showing up?
Speaker 3:Oh, that it did not take me a short time, let's just say because I was too Like narrow minded. So I started the business in 2017 or 2016. I can't remember one of those and I was going on. My most of my business has been me learning all about the business strategies and all these things and how to attain clients and all that nonsense, and doing it all the, I'm going to say the three-dimensional way, right, and the not in alignment way. And when I learned that those things didn't work, I started going into manifestation. I said, okay, let me try manifestation. How can I manifest people? And that, in a way, was like spiritual bypassing, because I wasn't looking at what I needed to work on on myself. And so then, when I decided, all right, now I got to look a different way because my adversation is not enough fucking working for me. So let me go in a different direction now. Sorry for the cussing.
Speaker 2:We'll put explicit on this one.
Speaker 3:I said, okay, you know what. Now I got to figure out what's going on here. So then I started looking more at myself in a different way and then I did some more of the healing work and then I got very depressed because the healing work that I did was so superficial but something happened and I got super, super depressed. Was so superficial, but something happened and I got super, super depressed and I was so depressed that I was actually suicidal. But I had a child and I had my husband and I thought like I can't, I can't just leave, even though I wish I, I really wish I did. I wasn't suicidal to the point where I was ready to do something. I was just like more crying to go home because I was like I'm not home, this is not my place, I don't want to be here anymore, I don't know why I'm here and that's all me knowing what my mission is, but really not accepting that power. Right, I wasn't accepting that. There was this power that I needed to collect, back and step into in order for me to back and step into, in order for me to go out there. There was too much fear. So for the life of me, prior to me getting depressed. I kept on hearing that I had to do this healing modality to actually receive it and I didn't trust it because I thought that it was crazy and it was basically light body work. I don't know if you ever heard of that, but it's etheric surgery on the light body and I thought it was nuts and I didn't believe it. I was actually angry about what. What that was? It's basically clearing out.
Speaker 3:There are certain structures in our light body and our Merkaba, which is our ascension, our vehicle of ascension. Everybody has it. It's a soul blueprint, it's part of the soul blueprint and it's meant to to the structures. It's actually funny. The structures in place are actually meant to separate you from the light because, part of you, being in a dense body, you can't be connected to the light, otherwise you won't be dense too much light. It becomes very light. So, um, there's structures in place. There's also programs and contracts that are with some of those structures and other structures that have been given in past lives, um, and even prior to being in a physical human form, when we're in that other realm. There are also structures that are replaced there as part of the programs and contracts and things that might've happened that are placed in our field. All of that creates this disconnect with your God frequency and it holds those belief programs in place, emotions, traumas, everything in place, so that you continue to experience that.
Speaker 3:I said why the hell would we choose to come here with structures that are going to stop us from reaching our, our godly self makes no sense at all. This is bullshit. And that's literally what I kept saying. And then one day I heard it's not just this life, it's past lives, this is from past lives that came along and and I thought, okay, this is crazy. Fine, maybe one day I'll do it, and I never did.
Speaker 3:When I got depressed again, that came to me and I said, all right, I have no choice at this point because I'm, I don't, I'm, I'm maxed out. I did so many different healing modalities. Nothing freaking really helped me. Now I got to figure this out out, so I did it and we were on kind of like the fast track, because you're really supposed to wait like three, four months in between. I'm like I'm not doing that. I can't. I have a kid and I have a husband. I gotta get my shit together. So she decided to work with me and we did it every two weeks, um and so, wow, I one day just got up and I started working out.
Speaker 3:This was, I think, after six weeks, possibly six weeks. Yes, it was six weeks, because it could not be longer. My parents and everybody was driving me nuts, I remember, but they I got up one day and I was just like on the treadmill and I heard to hit record, to start recording. And I'm like I don't even know what I'm recording, but okay, so I started recording and then I just had all this stuff channel through me about my healing, about what I was going through, all my raw experiences, my life lessons that were involved with this. And then later on I heard this was a podcast, the Blue Blood Wisdom podcast. Why, I don't know, but I just had all this information. I thought, all right, here goes my podcast. So I was just guided into my business and so I knew that there was something there.
Speaker 3:So later on, as I continue to go into my life this is coming to answer your question I received the Quantum Enlightenment system as a download. It was basically a combination of everything that has somewhat helped me throughout my journey, but then a mixture of the life lessons and the blueprint of what I initially received for myself. The blueprint is basically telling me that I was meant to be a teacher, that I'm meant to have this higher power to assist people in coming into their consciousness, into their truths, stuff like that. And so I used all of that and created this quantum enlightenment system because it was a download. When I was in the shower, it was like that missing piece that I had no idea I was looking for and it finally dawned on me that this is a bigger thing. This is a bigger thing. This is a bigger thing.
Speaker 3:So it's like three years later when I realized this powerful thing that I was just given because when I was in the shower and all of a sudden something just hit me I received this download I ran out of the shower, I started putting everything together, but I was guided because I was just being guided to do everything. I started putting everything together, but I was guided because I was just being guided to do everything. I realized this was a healing modality. I didn't know how powerful, I didn't know what it was. I started testing it on some friends and then kind of started moving things around and shaping it more to understand how it worked and then I did a case study. Even in my case study that's when I started was like 2020.
Speaker 3:So it took me three years to step into a part of it. Another year and a half to step into accepting that I was here to teach the teachers because I thought it was just like humanity. But then when I looked at my soul blueprint again, it said he'll teach the teachers. So it's those other people who are helping humanity in their way, and my goal is to help them so that they can have this advanced modality and also have even if they're not using the modality, but even for them to be clear and in a different state of consciousness for them to be able to use, you know, their abilities to help other people in a better way.
Speaker 2:So, in doing this as a business and to help teachers and provide this gift that you received, and to help teachers and provide this gift that you received, what have you been doing in your business to connect with those individuals so that they can hear and understand you? Right, because, like you said, everyone this is not for everyone. Everyone won't hear and understand what you're saying if they're not for you, but the people for you will. But how do you know who they are?
Speaker 3:I have been going on podcast interviews and right now I'm actually in the stages of refiguring that portion of my business because I've been concentrating mainly on podcast interviews and summits and, you know, speaking internationally and stuff like that. And while doing that, it was an opportunity for me because even though I accepted and this is the funniest part even though I accepted me working with teachers, I then started receiving people who were not teachers and people who were. It was so funny before I accepted it because I looked at it and this is what helped me accept it and it's just images coming into my mind. So that's why I cut myself off. But before I accepted it, I saw throughout all the people that I was working with. They were all healers and teachers, eft practitioners, whatever. They were all people already in that light. Right, they've already stepped into their own modalities or you know their businesses.
Speaker 3:And then, when I started to accept it, I started to receive people who were not in the business and who wanted to leave their jobs so they can feel happier and expand on their growth. They're people who just started to maybe not just started, but who have been going to Reiki and different healing modalities and haven't really received too much of a shift or transformation and decided now we're going to go to Ellen because they found me somehow and said, okay, we're ready to take this up a notch, we're ready to take this to the next level. And so those are the people who left their jobs and, you know, while working with me and starting their own business and or enhancing whatever they're doing, if they're in their own business, into a more, something more spiritual, or using whatever they've learned into a different way. So it's kind of to me, it's more of I'm just going with the flow of where I'm called to go. And so if I'm getting an invitation to speak somewhere, I feel into the energy to see are these people the people that I'm meant to work with? And if it doesn't feel in alignment with me, then I don't go.
Speaker 3:And the same for summits. If I'm invited to speak at a summit, if I don't feel in alignment with the energy, I don't accept every single offer, even though that would be great. I feel like there has to be some sort of alignment and so that's what I go with. I feel into the energy to see not just the profession or what they're doing, or if they're my target, I do look at the target to see if that's also an alignment, but mainly it's the energy and the feeling of it.
Speaker 2:Usually when people connect with you, is there a certain word phrase, statement you make that they get an aha moment.
Speaker 3:I mean, it's, I guess, looking at everything as a lesson is what you know they would say If I say okay, look at it in this perspective and this is the lesson, or there's a lesson here, what's the lesson?
Speaker 2:So, you're learning what life experience is. Yes, that's what you do to connect and help them connect with your teaching.
Speaker 3:Right. So every experience in our life is going to give us some kind of emotion, not every experience. If it does, and there's a trigger there, because an emotion is a sort of trigger. If there's a trigger there, that's your lesson. There's's one of the lessons. Like I said earlier, there's three to seven, three to six different um emotions attached to each of the life lessons and the seven lessons, and so when you're feeling an emotion, you need to ask yourself like, what is this teaching me, right?
Speaker 3:So in one of my programs that I just put together, I actually decided to go into and teach people about the lessons, the life lessons, for them to understand what emotions that they're carrying and what is it attached to. So on a daily basis, you can go and say, okay, I'm feeling anxiety, let me see what this lesson is. And when you think of the lesson, then you can look at it and say, oh, okay, so this is teaching me fear or whatever. This is teaching me this. I'm going to now understand it better, and the way you do it is by reflection meditation, asking yourself questions in meditation to try to understand why the lesson is coming up, where it's coming from, where it's stemming from, if there's an original event, if there's, because obviously these come in so many different ways. So I just want to touch on that for a little bit, just to let you know something that came to me which was really, really interesting. When we look at our lives, right, everything in our life outside of us is basically a mirror of what is inside of us. So if it's a mirror, then that means that we obviously need to work on that internal aspect of ourselves in order for us to be able to manifest something different. So, when you're manifesting something, you're asking the universe, god or whatever this is what I desire and then, because you're asking If it just came to us and there's no point of us being on Earth, right, because we could have just done that when we're in the different dimension, the point here is to clear out the block, and the block is a limiting belief program. It could be a trauma from a past life, it could be a contract from a past life or current life. Whatever it is, it is showing up to be cleared, and so people don't see that there's a tribulation that just came after you asked for something, and that's because it's meant to clear the block.
Speaker 3:And an example of me, looking at my, looking at my mirror. I said to myself OK, so I've been abandoned as a child emotionally from my mother and physically from my father. And I said to myself OK, so I've been abandoned as a child emotionally from my mother and physically from my father. And I said, ok, so if I, as a baby, experienced abandonment, that means I must have abandoned myself. Ok, but how can I abandon myself as a child, as a baby? It's impossible. Ok, so this is now dating to a past life. So, when you think about it right, there's the past life where, or many lives where I've abandoned myself and I came back and experienced the same thing and created that as a child, because there was that energy that came along with me that needed to be cleared. I don't know why I had to share that, but I heard to share that, so I'm sick.
Speaker 2:I used to hear that because, first and foremost, right, anytime we share anything, everyone's not going to a second believe it because, being here, we have different religious beliefs, different spirituality beliefs Right, and the community gets to choose that. We get to choose what we want to believe For me. I knew I had past lives based on dreams I had. That was not of my current life, but I came to understand it. I had a dream when I was younger and it would always be weird because it was a dream that it was no movie I was watching, there was nothing associated with this dream for me to have it. But then I realized. So I personally have found that belief to be, in my opinion, fact, and it's my fact. It's not the world's fact. I don't know what anyone else believes, but what you're saying about that contract or that spirit or that energy that comes into your new life with you, that is understandable, because where I am today, I had to go through my experience to clean that up that energy, to get from where I was to where I am. But I had to first be aware of it. I had to know what was happening. If I didn't know what was happening, I couldn't repair it, fix it, work on it, and repetitive things would keep happening to me from that energy. But I wasn't aware of it. But once I became aware of it, because I chose to, I had to make that choice, just like so many other business entrepreneurs have to make a choice, because the energy doesn't differentiate between your personal and your business. Absolutely what you have is what you had and it shows up anywhere. It goes to parenthood, relationship, single, whatever it is, friendships, any relationship. So when I decided that I was tired of it, I had to do the work, and doing the work was not I don't believe in hard and easy, it just is work. I could say that today. In the past it must have been really hard, but in some people's life it wasn't hard or easy, it was just I had to do something different. And that's when you reach right One small, simple step. Do something different if you desire something different.
Speaker 2:So when you share your story and what you've had to say, because you felt like you were being called to say it, you speaking to me, I'm not confused by what you say. I might ask for clarity because I don't practice this, but it's not new to me and that's okay. What our community listening to this don't know is that we're meeting for the first time. This is not a conversation we've ever had in the past. I didn't know Ellen's like mental theory, like ideas, theories, like this is not it. But I'm very open to anyone coming on the show that I've said yes to to know that I can support them in whatever they say and I get final say on whatever goes out to the world. But I thought that you said that because there are people who are challenged, don't know why. They don't know why, in their mind, their life has been hard. Hearing this this might give them an aha moment, which is what I'm all about.
Speaker 2:Yes, thank you, and that is why we share what we share without getting in the way of it. It's not my job to get in the way of a message and the message is not for everyone. They're for one person, right, and that's okay. It doesn't need to be for everyone. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2:When I show up, there is one person who's going to get the message and I've done my job Exactly. I agree with you. Not everyone gets the message because it've done my job by that. I agree with me. I can once get the message, because it's not for everyone and I'm okay with that. I've come to that okay place, just like how you come to your okay place, so I love that you're. It's weird because it feels like your chakra, or whatever it is, has opened up when you were watching that spiritual show, because the flow of information became heavy for you and yes, it is heavy at first because you don't know how to manage it because there are moments you feel like you are alone, because everyone else may not be experiencing what you are.
Speaker 2:Or understand it, and that's okay, or support it Right Because of their belief system, right Systems. People don't realize they're just limitations you've been given. You don't even get to choose them. Someone is eager to you and now you got to figure out if it does serve you or not and you get to choose whatever you desire. That's what I love about business. One, you can niche down. You don't have to speak to the world. Two, you are able to connect with the people you need to and they will understand you. They will know that you're for that. And guess what? Even when you work with them, they will outgrow you and move on, and it is cool. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2:So being a part of the business world, being an entrepreneur, a small business owner this is something I want the audience to always be mindful of, because there is someone listening to this message right now and going. I feel alone because the thing I have in me I don't even know how to express. People won't understand me, me. But you sharing today allows them to know they're not alone and there are other people who feel the same way, who can understand and relate. But once you accept who you're supposed to be, that's when the girl power begins.
Speaker 3:Absolutely, absolutely. I can't say, I can't even add anything to that, because that is just 100% truth. You can't be anybody else, because then, if you're not yourself, you're not going to attract what you're looking for. And the whole point of coming back to a body is to come fully back to yourself.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and that's the thing I've learned. I've accepted that my past lives was not as great as this one. I had to book a lot to get to where I am today. So I'm excited about the other ones, but I would never have a recollection of this one. It would be like a sperm moment and my dreams that show me my past life, with me exiting that. My dreams were the type that I was taken out of the world and that's the dreams I've had. I've seen me in different bodies, forms, because dreams never put you in the form you're in Like.
Speaker 2:I've always dreamed about my family, but they don't look like my family. Yeah, I don't know, people have the energy. Yeah, they are not my. They feel like my daughter. They feel like my husband. They don't look like my husband and daughter. It's a very but if people really pay attention to their dreams and they will they always feel like it, but they don't really look like it. It's a very amazing thing. I looked into it and I choose that. I don't need to. I am just aware of it and you into it and I choose that I don't need to, I am just aware of it.
Speaker 3:And you know it. Yes, and it's knowing it.
Speaker 2:It's trusting it. Yes, and that is it. I don't question it because I don't need to. It's not something I need to question. I know who I am. I am an average, much as girls should be in having a human experience. I mean, I know how amazing it is, but that's why I get to show up in the world, because I've accepted who I am and I stand Part of identity.
Speaker 3:Yes, having a life lesson yes.
Speaker 2:We are going to close up, but I wanted to know you have I know we're going to share and I'll know how people can connect with you something you're offering In your social media. Do you speak about the SOT7-like things?
Speaker 3:I had a podcast, like I said. It's still up on Spotify, I believe. So the Bluebird Wisdom podcast. I was sharing my raw experiences on a daily basis or whatever basis. I was going through things and learning how to apply the life lessons to those experiences.
Speaker 3:I do teach it a little bit differently now. So the program that I'm going to be talking about well, the program that I'm going to be talking about, the program that I'm talking about now is it's about a five or six week program based on oscillating your manifestations, and it's a live five or six week program, for we meet once a week for two hours for women Right now I might open up to men later. I'm actually working on case studies for men with men right now for the quantum enlightenment system to see if that system would help with the collective instead of just women. So right now, the Manifestation Accelerator program is called Queen of your Heart and it's basically meant to. It's like a self-discovery journey. You learn how to be yourself, how to come back to yourself, so that you can manifest a better life and learn about the lessons that are coming anyway, so you can stop the karmic cycle so much for joining me today and sharing this information with our community.
Speaker 2:I am happy to meet you, hear about what you're doing, understanding a little bit of who you are, where you came from, understanding and people don't realize this. No one in this world don't have a story. Every one of us have a story. Every one of us had things that were way in time or many times where we were down and we had to dig ourselves out because no one else was able to. But in order for us to dig ourselves out, we had to start trusting ourselves first and foremost. So when you got out of your depression, there was a choice to make. Yes, you had a husband, yes, you had a child, but you decided to live for yourself because you knew you had a purpose. And sometimes people don't realize they have a bigger purpose.
Speaker 2:When we use the word bigger purpose, please understand it doesn't mean you have to take over the world. It can easily be a moment that you have to be where you have to be to save someone else, to say a word to someone else, and that is it. We always think purpose is bigger. We think we need to be here until 100 years, but, as you know there is no guarantee to life. We come in as different ages across the board, but sometimes it's for a purpose. That purpose we really never understand. You never know, it's okay. You can understand it if you choose to, but if you don't, it's okay too. It's up to you to do whatever you desire to do.
Speaker 3:But I just want to say that purpose I believe there's mission and purpose. The divine mission is ultimately what you're meant to do for humanity, or if you're meant to serve in that way, right. But then purpose is to grow. Everyone's life purpose is to grow and to learn. Life purpose is to grow and to learn. So, as you live, that is your purpose to be here. You are not. If you are not in a you, okay. So let me just say this Everyone is worthy of a purpose and everyone is worthy of a divine mission because of the fact that you're here. You being here is already saying you're worthy. And with that I also want to say that I do want to offer a complimentary Akashic reading to those who are interested in getting some more clarity on what their divine mission is, and I can offer that in the Akashic records, so they can text me. I'm ready. You know, I want my purpose or I want my divine mission, or they can text me. I want clarity. You can put that in your show notes, which is one.
Speaker 2:But it's me if I don't have it here, so you could send me that information and we'll add it to the show notes.
Speaker 3:Okay, so I want clarity. You can text that to 561-862-2932. And then we can set up a free reading.
Speaker 2:Thank you so much for sharing.
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